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LIFE TRANSITIONS

When you’re not quite sure who you are now.

Transitions are not always dramatic. Some arrive without warning — a bereavement, a redundancy, a relationship ending. Others are chosen and still hard — a move, a new role, becoming a parent, retirement, a child leaving home.  Whatever form the change takes, transitions ask you to let go of a version of yourself — and that can stir up grief, disorientation, and a deep uncertainty about what comes next. That’s not a sign that something has gone wrong. It’s a sign that something mattered.

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How counselling can help

Life transitions are one of the areas I care about most — and one where I have both professional and personal experience. I understand the particular vertigo of finding yourself somewhere new, without the old landmarks to navigate by.  Counselling during a transition isn’t about being told what to do next. It’s about having a space to grieve what’s been lost, understand what the change means to you, and begin to find your footing in what’s new.  We might look at the identity questions a transition raises, the relationships it affects, the fears it brings up, and the possibilities it opens — at whatever pace feels right.

APPROACHES USED

Person-centred therapy

CBT

Transactional analysis

SOME TRANSITIONS I WORK WITH

Bereavement and loss  ·  Relationship breakdown or divorce  ·  Career change or redundancy  ·  Relocation – including immigration  ·  Becoming a parent  ·  Children leaving home  ·  Retirement  ·  Serious illness – your own or a loved one’s  ·  Significant birthdays and life-stage changes

Grazyna Gwarek

BACP Registered · MBACP